{"id":89,"date":"2020-09-09T06:54:43","date_gmt":"2020-09-09T06:54:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stories.mysecretdrawer.co\/2020\/09\/09\/7-signs-a-married-man-wants-to-cheat-with-you\/"},"modified":"2020-09-09T06:54:43","modified_gmt":"2020-09-09T06:54:43","slug":"7-signs-a-married-man-wants-to-cheat-with-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/7-signs-a-married-man-wants-to-cheat-with-you\/","title":{"rendered":"7 Signs a Married Man Wants to Cheat with You"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

If you\u2019re reading this because you\u2019ve started to suspect that a married man wants to cheat with you, chances are you\u2019re right. That tiny inkling you get every time he\u2019s around – the one you keep shrugging off, that\u2019s not just your imagination. It\u2019s there for a reason \u2013 and it\u2019s not your fanciful mind\u2019s eye. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Consciously or not, he\u2019s been sending you signals, and you\u2019ve been receiving them. That\u2019s not your fault. It may not even be his. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The real question is, what are you going to do about it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hey, now, wait a minute! ‘Maybe he just wants to be friends’, you try to convince yourself. ‘Maybe I\u2019m reading too much into it’, you say. He\u2019s happily married – and he really seems like a good guy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, that ring around his finger is no guarantee that he\u2019s faithful, is it? The fact that he\u2019s in what looks to be a happy marriage doesn\u2019t change anything, either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

For whatever reason, 20 percent of men cheat, according to the US General Social Survey. Why? Because men are more prone to casual, opportunistic infidelity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s how they get caught. In many men, infidelity is an indication of recklessness, among other things. Keep that in mind as you read on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Twenty — Twenty percent of men cheat, according to the US General Social Survey.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Signs that He Wants to Cheat with You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Still not convinced? ‘He\u2019s going to be a father soon, after all’, you say. He’s so excited about it. Guess what? Soon-to-be fathers may cheat even more, according to the statistics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Estimates suggest around 10 percent of expecting fathers cheat on their pregnant wives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We can go on and on or you can simply stop questioning yourself and start thinking things through. You really don\u2019t want to do anything crazy just because you were caught off guard, do you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now is the time to start understanding exactly what it was that made you suspect that he wants to cheat with you in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. He looks at you differently.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The first, most obvious indication is in the way he looks at you. He probably won\u2019t have the courage to confess his feelings for you this early. But he won\u2019t be able to control how he looks at you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you enter a room and he\u2019s there, you\u2019ll sense that simply seeing you has made his day a whole lot better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If this man is already in love with you, he will probably look you deep in the eyes. That\u2019s because he\u2019s trying to read something from your look. He acts like he doesn\u2019t want you to know. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deep,<\/em><\/span> *deep<\/em> down though, he wants you to know. He hopes you\u2019ll figure it out for yourself and, embarrassed as he is, he hopes you\u2019ll reciprocate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
$\"If$
If this man is already in love with you, he will probably look you deep in the eyes.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
2. His body language says it all.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
His body language is a dead giveaway. One of the signs that he\u2019s into you is that he can\u2019t help but want to be in the same room as you all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He\u2019s drawn to you. If you encounter him at work or with a group of friends, he\u2019ll likely sit or stand next to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He\u2019ll somehow mimic your moves and stand with his feet directed toward you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Watch him carefully. His feet are shoulder width apart. His shoulders are relaxed. His hands and arms are uncrossed, and his jaw is unclenched.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He might show signs of nervousness but he\u2019ll make his presence felt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cOpen body language is an indication that a guy is curious and attentive to you,\u201d says therapist Shamyra Howard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If he\u2019s the confident type, he\u2019ll even try to make physical contact in a subtle way. When he talks to you, he will touch your shoulder or your hand. When the two of you greet, he will want to kiss you on the cheek, or at least hug you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"One$
One of the signs that he\u2019s into you is that he can\u2019t help but want to be in the same room as you all the time.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
3. He tells you about his \u201cproblematic\u201d marriage.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
If a married man is falling in love with you and wants to act on it, he will say and do whatever he can to justify himself. He knows he shouldn\u2019t be feeling the way he does but he can\u2019t help himself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
He needs validation, so he will probably talk to you about his marriage. He will open up to you about his problems, telling you he\u2019s been unhappy for years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe all hear the old line about how guys cheat because they’re not getting any at home, but that’s not usually true,\u201d says writer Logan Hill for *Cosmopolitan<\/em>. \u201cWhen a guy cheats, it’s not the relationship’s fault or his wife’s fault. It’s his fault.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*This man will likely open up to you about other things, as well. He will talk to you about his past, his hopes, his goals, and interests. <\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*He genuinely wants to be your friend. But instead of admitting his deeper feelings, he\u2019ll probably tell you he\u2019s unhappy and needs someone to hear him out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
$\"Has$
Has he told you about his problematic marriage yet?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
4. He makes excuses to talk to you.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
When a man is in love with you, he\u2019ll want to spend as much time with you as possible. But when that someone happens to be married, he knows he can\u2019t just ask you out. Instead, he\u2019ll invent excuses \u2013 or create situations \u2013 that allow him to make contact with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHe\u2019s calling and texting you for a reason – he wants to engage with you,\u201d says Nick Bastion for *Vixen Daily<\/em>. \u201cHe wants to hear your voice or read your words. Talking to you gives him a little charge inside.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*If he\u2019s a colleague at work, he\u2019ll probably offer his help just to spend time with you – and he\u2019ll ask for yours, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*If he is truly, deeply in love with you, he\u2019ll even start showing up unexpectedly at places where he\u2019s sure to see you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
$\"If$
If he\u2019s a colleague at work, he\u2019ll probably offer his help just to spend time with you – and he\u2019ll ask for yours, too.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
5. He listens to everything<\/em> you have to say.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
A married man who is genuinely into you won\u2019t just ask about your interests and life right away. He\u2019ll listen to you when you talk about these things – and listen closely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your admirer is likely to ask questions based on what you tell him. Other than that, he will remember everything you\u2019ve told him. He sees these little bits of information as breadcrumbs to your heart – or your pants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Depending on circumstances, your married admirer might even act on whatever information you\u2019ve shared with him. If you mention – say – your love for Japanese food, he\u2019ll likely suggest sushi next time you two are out with other colleagues or friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"He\u2019ll$
He\u2019ll listen to you when you talk – and he’ll listen closely.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
6. He\u2019s interested in your love life.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
When a married man has feelings for you, he will sometimes show enormous interest in your love life. He will want to know if you are single, first of all. If you are, he will want to know what type of men you prefer. If you happen to be in a relationship, he will want to know all its details. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now, he might not ask you these questions up front. That would be too obvious, even creepy. But he\u2019ll find out somehow. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Obviously, he hopes to hear you complain about your relationship. Every complaint is an opportunity for him to act on his feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"When$
When a married man has feelings for you, he will sometimes show enormous interest in your love life.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
7. He gets jealous when you show an interest in other men.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Next time you talk to this man about some other male friend or colleague, make sure you pay attention to his body language. If he\u2019s the jealous type, he\u2019ll show signs of jealousy at the very mention of some other man\u2019s name. He might gasp, make a face, both of which are body language ciphers of jealousy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He will somehow make you feel like you\u2019ve done a bad thing, too, when you show an interest in other men. He might start acting strangely for no apparent reason. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Keep in mind that his wish for you to chase him is another indication of jealousy. He is aware that he cannot show jealousy but he can\u2019t help himself. He wants you to know, despite his marital status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"$
If he\u2019s the jealous type, he\u2019ll show signs of jealousy at the very mention of some other man\u2019s name.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Considering the Consequences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Why do men cheat? Some may cheat because they are unsatisfied; but, as a rule, men don\u2019t cheat because they are unhappy. Men cheat because they think they can get away with it – and they\u2019re often willing to let themselves escape responsibility for their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While women do cheat<\/a>, men cheat more. Cheaters tend to be opportunistic. This is especially true of chronic cheaters. They are capable of emotional compartmentalization. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When a man decides to cheat, he will have already found a way to justify \u2013 or belittle the implications of – his behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you happen to find this ma<\/a>r<\/a>ried man<\/a> attractive, then no one can blame you for feeling tempted. The thing to remember is that his kind of opportunism requires a certain amount of daring and recklessness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is always the risk that he\u2019ll get caught, and \u2013 if you fail to make wise choices – you\u2019re likely to get caught with him. You’ll probably end up with a broken heart, and, yes, others will be hurt, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have you got a story to share?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\n
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Twenty percent of men cheat, according to the US General Social Survey.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Signs that He Wants to Cheat with You<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Still not convinced? ‘He\u2019s going to be a father soon, after all’, you say. He’s so excited about it. Guess what? Soon-to-be fathers may cheat even more, according to the statistics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Estimates suggest around 10 percent of expecting fathers cheat on their pregnant wives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We can go on and on or you can simply stop questioning yourself and start thinking things through. You really don\u2019t want to do anything crazy just because you were caught off guard, do you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now is the time to start understanding exactly what it was that made you suspect that he wants to cheat with you in the first place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. He looks at you differently.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
The first, most obvious indication is in the way he looks at you. He probably won\u2019t have the courage to confess his feelings for you this early. But he won\u2019t be able to control how he looks at you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When you enter a room and he\u2019s there, you\u2019ll sense that simply seeing you has made his day a whole lot better.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If this man is already in love with you, he will probably look you deep in the eyes. That\u2019s because he\u2019s trying to read something from your look. He acts like he doesn\u2019t want you to know. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Deep,<\/em><\/span> *deep<\/em> down though, he wants you to know. He hopes you\u2019ll figure it out for yourself and, embarrassed as he is, he hopes you\u2019ll reciprocate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
$\"If$
If this man is already in love with you, he will probably look you deep in the eyes.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
2. His body language says it all.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
His body language is a dead giveaway. One of the signs that he\u2019s into you is that he can\u2019t help but want to be in the same room as you all the time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He\u2019s drawn to you. If you encounter him at work or with a group of friends, he\u2019ll likely sit or stand next to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He\u2019ll somehow mimic your moves and stand with his feet directed toward you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Watch him carefully. His feet are shoulder width apart. His shoulders are relaxed. His hands and arms are uncrossed, and his jaw is unclenched.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He might show signs of nervousness but he\u2019ll make his presence felt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cOpen body language is an indication that a guy is curious and attentive to you,\u201d says therapist Shamyra Howard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If he\u2019s the confident type, he\u2019ll even try to make physical contact in a subtle way. When he talks to you, he will touch your shoulder or your hand. When the two of you greet, he will want to kiss you on the cheek, or at least hug you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"One$
One of the signs that he\u2019s into you is that he can\u2019t help but want to be in the same room as you all the time.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
3. He tells you about his \u201cproblematic\u201d marriage.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
If a married man is falling in love with you and wants to act on it, he will say and do whatever he can to justify himself. He knows he shouldn\u2019t be feeling the way he does but he can\u2019t help himself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
He needs validation, so he will probably talk to you about his marriage. He will open up to you about his problems, telling you he\u2019s been unhappy for years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cWe all hear the old line about how guys cheat because they’re not getting any at home, but that’s not usually true,\u201d says writer Logan Hill for *Cosmopolitan<\/em>. \u201cWhen a guy cheats, it’s not the relationship’s fault or his wife’s fault. It’s his fault.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*This man will likely open up to you about other things, as well. He will talk to you about his past, his hopes, his goals, and interests. <\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*He genuinely wants to be your friend. But instead of admitting his deeper feelings, he\u2019ll probably tell you he\u2019s unhappy and needs someone to hear him out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
$\"Has$
Has he told you about his problematic marriage yet?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
4. He makes excuses to talk to you.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
When a man is in love with you, he\u2019ll want to spend as much time with you as possible. But when that someone happens to be married, he knows he can\u2019t just ask you out. Instead, he\u2019ll invent excuses \u2013 or create situations \u2013 that allow him to make contact with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cHe\u2019s calling and texting you for a reason – he wants to engage with you,\u201d says Nick Bastion for *Vixen Daily<\/em>. \u201cHe wants to hear your voice or read your words. Talking to you gives him a little charge inside.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*If he\u2019s a colleague at work, he\u2019ll probably offer his help just to spend time with you – and he\u2019ll ask for yours, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
*If he is truly, deeply in love with you, he\u2019ll even start showing up unexpectedly at places where he\u2019s sure to see you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n*
$\"If$
If he\u2019s a colleague at work, he\u2019ll probably offer his help just to spend time with you – and he\u2019ll ask for yours, too.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
5. He listens to everything<\/em> you have to say.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
A married man who is genuinely into you won\u2019t just ask about your interests and life right away. He\u2019ll listen to you when you talk about these things – and listen closely. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Your admirer is likely to ask questions based on what you tell him. Other than that, he will remember everything you\u2019ve told him. He sees these little bits of information as breadcrumbs to your heart – or your pants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Depending on circumstances, your married admirer might even act on whatever information you\u2019ve shared with him. If you mention – say – your love for Japanese food, he\u2019ll likely suggest sushi next time you two are out with other colleagues or friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"He\u2019ll$
He\u2019ll listen to you when you talk – and he’ll listen closely.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
6. He\u2019s interested in your love life.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
When a married man has feelings for you, he will sometimes show enormous interest in your love life. He will want to know if you are single, first of all. If you are, he will want to know what type of men you prefer. If you happen to be in a relationship, he will want to know all its details. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Now, he might not ask you these questions up front. That would be too obvious, even creepy. But he\u2019ll find out somehow. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Obviously, he hopes to hear you complain about your relationship. Every complaint is an opportunity for him to act on his feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"When$
When a married man has feelings for you, he will sometimes show enormous interest in your love life.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
7. He gets jealous when you show an interest in other men.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Next time you talk to this man about some other male friend or colleague, make sure you pay attention to his body language. If he\u2019s the jealous type, he\u2019ll show signs of jealousy at the very mention of some other man\u2019s name. He might gasp, make a face, both of which are body language ciphers of jealousy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He will somehow make you feel like you\u2019ve done a bad thing, too, when you show an interest in other men. He might start acting strangely for no apparent reason. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Keep in mind that his wish for you to chase him is another indication of jealousy. He is aware that he cannot show jealousy but he can\u2019t help himself. He wants you to know, despite his marital status.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
$\"$
If he\u2019s the jealous type, he\u2019ll show signs of jealousy at the very mention of some other man\u2019s name.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n
Considering the Consequences<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
Why do men cheat? Some may cheat because they are unsatisfied; but, as a rule, men don\u2019t cheat because they are unhappy. Men cheat because they think they can get away with it – and they\u2019re often willing to let themselves escape responsibility for their actions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
While women do cheat<\/a>, men cheat more. Cheaters tend to be opportunistic. This is especially true of chronic cheaters. They are capable of emotional compartmentalization. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
When a man decides to cheat, he will have already found a way to justify \u2013 or belittle the implications of – his behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you happen to find this ma<\/a>r<\/a>ried man<\/a> attractive, then no one can blame you for feeling tempted. The thing to remember is that his kind of opportunism requires a certain amount of daring and recklessness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is always the risk that he\u2019ll get caught, and \u2013 if you fail to make wise choices – you\u2019re likely to get caught with him. You’ll probably end up with a broken heart, and, yes, others will be hurt, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have you got a story to share?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
That little inkling you get every time he\u2019s around, that\u2019s not just your imagination. It\u2019s there for a reason \u2013 and it\u2019s not your fanciful mind\u2019s eye.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":90,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[17,20],"tags":[69,71,120],"class_list":["post-89","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-couples","category-seduction","tag-cheating","tag-infidelity","tag-married-men"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}