To play the game, you fling the dregs of wine left in your cup at a target in the middle of the room. The target was usually a small disk on top of an upright pole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You\u2019d dedicate your attempt to a particular guest or courtesan for whom you had erotic inclinations. Odds are, you\u2019d be competing with others for the same muse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You and your rivals would take turns flinging wine at the target, each attempting to knock that disk off the pole. Whoever succeeded the most elegantly had a good chance of winning the chosen one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Happily, today\u2019s sex games are decidedly racier and to-the-point than the Kottabos<\/em>. If you\u2019ve never played a modern sex game before, you should give it a shot<\/p>\n\n\n\n Couples tend to lose that sense of playfulness in the bedroom as their relationships progress. Fun and sexy bedroom games are a sure way to restore that erstwhile friskiness while taking intimacy to the next level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Below are six sex games you can try with your partner tonight – or even better, over the next six<\/em> nights!<\/p>\n\n\n\n This sex game is gaining popularity in sexual health forums these days. Before jumping into bed with your partner for a romp, set the timer on your phone for no more than five minutes. Once the timer goes off, stop what you\u2019re doing. Reset the timer and switch activities or positions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The practice began in the late 1950s as a treatment for premature ejaculation. When played as a sex game, it becomes a method for couples to tease and entice each other into feverish sexual arousal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cNothing is more tantalizing than having something feel amazing and then taking it away,\u201d says Rachel Wright<\/a>, a licensed marriage and family therapist based in New York City.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We came upon this sex game in a blog written by Sylvia Smith of Marriage.com<\/a>. The game requires a few pieces of paper, a vessel to put them in, and an anything-goes kind of imagination and daring.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Both players write down five fantasies on five pieces of paper. You put them into a fishbowl – a small box or a hat will do fine, too \u2013 and mix them around. <\/p>\n\n\n\n You and your partner then take turns picking one. After making a selection, the chosen fantasy is what you try to recreate with your partner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n When played with the proper devil-may-care attitude, this sex game can result in some truly mind-blowing nights together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n After all, fantasies may range from the tame, like trying a new position, or the wildly kinky, like introducing a third party into the bedroom!<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you grew up on Planet Earth, you\u2019d know about Truth or Dare. When played as a sexy bedroom game, this old party favorite serves a dual purpose. It brings fun into the bedroom even as it increases intimacy between partners.<\/p>\n\n\n\n To play it, think up a list of questions that would allow you to better understand your partner, both in and out of the bedroom. Then conjure a list of dares that are just outside your normal bedroom routine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cThe options are limitless with this classic game,\u201d says Wright. \u201cStep outside of the day-to-day.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n More than 20 years ago, psychologist Arthur Aron <\/a>succeeded in making two strangers fall in love in his laboratory. <\/p>\n\n\n\n How did he do it? Aron \u2013 who is now a professor of psychology at the at Stony Brook University in New York – instructed a man and woman to enter a laboratory through separate doors. The two sat face to face and answered a series of increasingly personal questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n They then stared silently into each other\u2019s eyes for four minutes. The most tantalizing detail about the experiment is the fact that, six months later, the two participants were married.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Staring contests can be fun and stimulating. But the Naked Staring Contest adds a deliciously naughty edge to the game!<\/p>\n\n\n\n Get undressed and sit directly across from each other. \u201cThink of a penalty for whoever blinks first,\u201d says Daniel Sher, a sex educator for the Canadian sex shop, Naughty North<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Maybe that means performing an erotic massage, she continues. Maybe it means something more daring and explicit. Get creative, says the sex educator, and have fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We have all heard of – or played \u2013 one kind of drinking game or another. The Kissing Game is a sweet and undeniably erotic variation on one of our favorite drinking games. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Experts have noted that couples with intimacy issues don\u2019t kiss enough. They typically stick with short pecks that do little to encourage a deeper connection. The Kissing Game offers an excellent solution.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This sex game gives couples a reason to connect on a physical level. What\u2019s a better way to start physically connecting than kissing? Couples who love to brush lips will tell you that the intimate act of kissing often leads to more physical intimacy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n So, how do you play the game? When you and your partner are cuddled up watching a TV show, pick a word. Whenever you hear that word, kiss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Chances are, you won\u2019t finish the show. But then who needs television when you\u2019re enjoying a frenzied romp with your spouse?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Many happy couples know that role-playing and dress-up games are exciting ways to spice up their sex lives. Intimacy coach and author Londin Angel Winters says these games can prove to be especially satisfying for women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Do you have a thing for men in uniform? Why not have your partner dress as a police officer and get a ticket?<\/p>\n\n\n\n “If a woman sees role-play as an opportunity to enjoy lots of different sexual energies with the same partner, she will tend to love and value role-play as a way of getting her need for variety met without having to play the field with different partners,” says Winters.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can dress up as a nurse or \u2013 if you are more inclined to try raunchier possibilities \u2013 wear erotic lingerie<\/a> and pretend you\u2019re a BDSM mistress<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n![\"We](\"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.com\/stories\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/14\/2022\/09\/kottabos.jpg\")
6 Tantalizing Sex Games for You and Your Partner<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1. Start and Stop: A Remedy for Premature Ejaculation Becomes a Fun Sex Game <\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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2. The Fantasy Fishbowl: Your Secret Desires Plucked from a Fishbowl<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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3. Truth or Dare: A Dual-Purpose Sex Game<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
4. The Naked Staring Contest: A Laboratory-Proven Sex Game<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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The Kissing Game<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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Sexy Role-Playing Dress-Up Game<\/h3>\n\n\n\n
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