{"id":318,"date":"2022-04-04T06:29:17","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T06:29:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stories.mysecretdrawer.co\/2022\/04\/04\/how-to-buy-your-girlfriend-racy-lingerie-shell-actually-enjoy-wearing\/"},"modified":"2022-04-04T06:29:17","modified_gmt":"2022-04-04T06:29:17","slug":"how-to-buy-your-girlfriend-racy-lingerie-shell-actually-enjoy-wearing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mysecretdrawer.co\/stories\/how-to-buy-your-girlfriend-racy-lingerie-shell-actually-enjoy-wearing\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Buy Your Girlfriend Racy Lingerie She\u2019ll Actually Enjoy Wearing"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

We get it. You\u2019re into this girl and special occasions are perpetually right around the corner. There\u2019s her birthday, your anniversary, and Christmas, to name a few. So, it\u2019s easy to run out of gift ideas for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Of course, we recommend that you buy her lingerie. If you have been a couple long enough, we\u2019re sure the thought has crossed your mind once or twice.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We can understand, too, that stepping into a brick-and-mortar lingerie shop can be intimidating. You don\u2019t want to look like the pervert hovering around the thongs section in a Victoria\u2019s Secret shop.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Special occasions are perpetually right around the corner. There\u2019s her birthday, your anniversary, and Christmas, to name a few. So, it\u2019s easy to run out of gift ideas for her. Of course, My Secret Drawer\u00ae recommends that you get her some lingerie. <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

How to Buy Her Lingerie <\/h2>\n\n\n\n

For a man, buying lingerie might seem intimidating, but it\u2019s not at all a difficult task. And seeing the woman you love in the little number you bought for her is always rewarding. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Researchers say that 90 percent<\/a> of men rate sex as their top choice for a Valentine\u2019s Day gift. (That shouldn\u2019t surprise you.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t have to walk into a brick-and-mortar store to shop for lingerie, either. Buying online is easier, more discreet, and more convenient. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We at My Secret Drawer\u00ae are always ready to help. That\u2019s what we\u2019re all about. Below is our six-step no-nonsense guide for buying your woman lingerie she will enjoy wearing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Be confident.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

You have no reason to be embarrassed. Men have been giving women sexy underwear ever since underwear was invented. While research says seeing a woman in lingerie turns men on, most girls like it, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What might surprise you is that many women like lingerie for precisely the same reasons<\/a>. Keep this in mind and remember that you want your girl to feel sexy in what you\u2019re buying her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The gesture of buying her sexy lingerie won\u2019t look creepy if the point is to have fun, after all. It\u2019s also a great way to keep the excitement and attraction alive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Buying lingerie for your significant other might seem intimidating, but it\u2019s not at all a difficult task. And seeing the woman you love in the little number you bought for her is always rewarding. <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

2. Know her lingerie preferences.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re not sure how risqu\u00e9 to go, it\u2019s best to err on the side of being conservative. This is especially true for your first few purchases. There\u2019s nothing wrong with buying her something that you think is a bit outside of her comfort zone. But don\u2019t push her so far as to make her uncomfortable. You want this to be a fun experience for her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There are many types of lingerie out there. Your best bet is to look to your partner\u2019s purchases for hints. If she likes to wear shorts<\/a> to bed, she is unlikely to respond well to a crotch-less teddy<\/a>. If she\u2019s into sexy corsets<\/a> and lacy bra tops and garter belts<\/a>, then you have a wider array of options.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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If she likes to wear shorts to bed, she is unlikely to respond well to a crotch-less teddy. If she\u2019s into sexy corsets and lacy bra tops and garter belts, then you have a wider array of options. <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

3. Avoid her insecurities.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s where things can get complicated. She might feel extremely self-conscious about the body parts that you happen to love most. Women who love women almost always understand this instinctively. Sadly, we cannot say the same for men who love women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If she truly despises a part of her body, she won\u2019t enjoy calling attention to it. Your purchase might work against you by making her feel pressured. So, stay clear of her insecurities. There are other ways to help her in that department.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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If she truly despises a part of her body, she won\u2019t enjoy calling attention to it. Your purchase might work against you by making her feel pressured. So, stay clear of her insecurities. <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

4. Know her size.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Do your homework and be prepared. Before you do any shopping, take a quick peek into your partner\u2019s underwear drawer while she isn\u2019t looking. Write down her bra and panty size. If you don\u2019t have time to write it all down, just take a picture of the label.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Check the sizes on a few of her lingerie items. Sizes can differ slightly across brands and styles, but you can use our size chart<\/a> as a reference.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t forget color options, either. If you are unsure about the color, go for black. Black is a classic and is always good when buying lingerie for your wife or girlfriend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Make the purchase.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

My Secret Drawer\u00ae offers stylish, well-made lingerie sets for women. You get what you pay for in high-end lingerie. We even offer generous discounts for customers who subscribe to our exclusive membership program<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you buy lingerie as a gift, we recommend that you choose matching sets of knickers and bras<\/a>. We have a wide selection<\/a> of in our online store. Check it out<\/a>. If you still feel lost, it’s best to do some additional research<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Once you\u2019ve chosen the set you like, everything else should be easy. You can complete the look with accessories such as stockings, sexy suspenders, and garters<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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When you buy lingerie as a gift, we recommend that you choose matching sets of knickers and bras. We have a wide selection of in our online store. Check it out. If you still feel lost, it’s best to do some additional research. <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

6. Present the gift.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Timing is essential for lingerie gifts. Surprising her with lingerie can bring a much-needed shake-up to your sex lives. Conversely, it can be a little too tacky for Valentine\u2019s Day, unless you can manage it like a real ladies’ man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The final touch is also crucial. Choosing gift wrapping should be as important as choosing lingerie as a gift. If you don\u2019t know how to wrap a gift, get an elegant gift box. That will work just as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Timing
Timing is essential for lingerie gifts. Surprising her with lingerie can bring a much-needed shake-up to your sex lives. Conversely, it can be a little too tacky for Valentine\u2019s Day, unless you can manage it like a real ladies’ man. <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

On a more serious note, it\u2019s best to avoid lingerie if your girlfriend has persistent body image issues. The same is true if she struggles with health problems that might make her feel uncomfortable in racy lingerie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

While you know your girlfriend best, we would also advise against giving her lingerie as an apology. (Let\u2019s face it, lingerie can easily be a gift for yourself, too!) Make sure you present your gift when she\u2019s in the right mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When it\u2019s done right, giving your girlfriend or wife lingerie as a gift is a fun surprise for her. We hope you enjoy the whole experience, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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