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Women don\u2019t orgasm as frequently as men. That\u2019s not a just opinion. It’s a fact. More and more studies are shedding light on this “orgasm gap<\/a>,\u201d yet it still poses a nagging, two-pronged question. Why does the disparity exist, and what can we do to achieve orgasm equality?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Researchers from Chapman University in California and the University of Indiana believe they may have finally discovered the answer. And it\u2019s far simpler than what you imagine. \u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“What makes women orgasm is the focus of pretty intense speculation,\u201d says David Frederick<\/a>, an assistant professor of psychology at Chapman and the team\u2019s lead author. \u201cEvery month, dozens of magazines and online articles highlight different ways to help women achieve orgasm more easily. It is the focus of entire books. For many people, orgasm is an important part of sexual relationships.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Women don\u2019t orgasm as frequently as men.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

So, what\u2019s this fancy combination that makes women climax?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Frederick suggests that a combination of genital stimulation, deep kissing, and oral sex is the \u201cgolden trio.\u201d He and his team are sure that these moves \u2013 executed in combination \u2013 are most likely to elicit a Yes, Yes, Yes from women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s it, plain and simple, no elaborate toys, no especially difficult maneuvers a reasonably experienced man or woman might now know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But how Chapman and his team arrived at their conclusion \u2013 and what they learned along the way – is something of a story in itself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Just 65 percent of heterosexual women achieve climax during sex.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

The researchers analyzed data<\/a> collected through an online survey hosted on the NBC News website in 2017. More than 52,000 people aged between 18 and 65 participated in the survey. All participants were either married or in a relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe had the rare opportunity to look at responses from over 50,000 people, including over 2,000 gay, lesbian, and bisexual men and women,\u201d says Chapman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The results revealed several \u201corgasm gaps<\/a>.\u201d These existed not just between the sexes, but also between individuals with different sexual orientations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some 95 percent of heterosexual men reported that they usually or always achieved climax during sex. In stark contrast, just 65 percent of heterosexual women could say the same. The difference reveals quite a few things, according to the researchers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps the most startling revelation is that heterosexual women who sleep with men were the least likely to orgasm among all the groups in the survey.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In comparison, the figure was 89 percent for gay men, 86 percent for lesbians, 88 percent for bisexual men, and 66 percent for bisexual women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe orgasm gaps between men and heterosexual women were well known prior to this study,\u201d said Frederick. \u201cThe gaps between lesbian women and heterosexual women, however, were more speculative or based on small samples of lesbian women.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cSome education is needed!\u201d<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The team attributes the large disparity among women to the fact that those in girl-on-girl<\/a> partnerships are more likely to take turns at inducing orgasms. Women also have a better understanding than men that vaginal sex isn\u2019t as effective as clitoral stimulation<\/a> in prompting an orgasm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cAbout 30 percent of men actually think that intercourse is the best way for women to have an orgasm, and that is sort of a tragic figure because it couldn\u2019t be more incorrect,\u201d says the study\u2019s co-author Elisabeth Lloyd<\/a>, a professor of biology at Indiana University.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Only 35 percent of heterosexual women always or usually orgasm during vaginal sex. Without vaginal penetration, 80 percent of heterosexual women and 91 percent of lesbians always or usually orgasm. \u201cTo say that there needs to be some education among men is an understatement,\u201d says Lloyd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

True enough, a separate study funded by the University of Wisconsin found that over 60 percent of college students falsely believe the clitoris is inside the vaginal canal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But both Lloyd and Frederick agree that there could be other reasons for the orgasm gap. Frederick says socio-cultural and evolutionary factors might be behind the phenomenon, as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“Women have higher body dissatisfaction than men, and it interferes with their sex life more,\u201d says Frederick. \u201cThis can impact sexual satisfaction and ability to orgasm if people are focusing more on these concerns than on the sexual experience.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is also the idea that male orgasm helps facilitate reproduction. There is no such connection between orgasm and reproduction in women, Frederick says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

“But millions of years ago, there might have been,” he adds. “One theory is that in ancestors of humans, orgasm occurred more easily because its function was to cause ovulation to occur. Once the monthly menstrual cycle began regulating ovulation, orgasm was no longer coupled with reproduction for women. This allowed ability and ease of orgasm to become more variable in women over millions of years\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Lesbians say they almost always orgasm during sex.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Something to Talk About<\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Quite tellingly, the gap also highlights an enormous discrepancy between men and women in the perception of sexual satisfaction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some 41 percent of the heterosexual men who participated in the survey said their partner always achieved an orgasm. But only 33 percent of heterosexual women said that they were likely to climax during sex with a male partner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cPart of this difference in perception could be due to women faking orgasms, which research has suggested women will do for a variety of reasons, including out of love for their partner, to protect their partner\u2019s self-esteem, intoxication, or to bring the sexual encounter to an end,\u201d the study authors note.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lloyd says that studying orgasm frequency remains an important area of research. Previous studies show a significant association between orgasms and greater satisfaction with personal relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The results of such research, the authors add, offer couples a range of different approaches to sex. Each could improve the frequency of orgasms, particularly among women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWomen really are tremendously variable in how readily they orgasm and what makes one woman orgasm can be quite different than what makes another woman orgasm,\u201d says Frederick. \u201cExplicit and direct communication with one\u2019s partner is key.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

That said, Lloyd urges couples to consider the \u201cgolden trio\u201d of moves next time they are intimate with each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI would like [women] to take that home and think about it, and to think about it with their partners and talk about it with their partners,\u201d she says. \u201cIf they are not fully experiencing their fullest sexual expression to the maximum of their ability then I think our paper has something to contribute to their wellbeing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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